Yep. I’ve been thinking a lot about authority lately; largely because we now have a 17 year old who is trying to thwart some of her own authority in our house! I think it is safe to say that most of us would rather be in the position of authority, rather than under someone else’s authority. The definition of authority is the power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience.
We live in a culture that no longer respects authority, particularly if that authority steps on our toes in any way. We also live in a culture where parents shy away from being the authority for their children, especially when life gets uncomfortable. And it shows in endless levels of disrespect and miscommunication.
I think it would be wise for us to remember that God holds all authority and He ordains authority too. “Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God” (Romans 13:1).
Make no mistake, God is our authority and He is in control. And any person who holds a position of authority (i.e. leaders, parents, teachers, employers) are accountable to God for how they handle this authority.
It has been a challenging week for my husband and I as parents. As my daughter pushes back on some of our household rules, it is easy to lose our patience and focus.
Ya’ll, isn’t that a picture of what we do regularly to our Father in heaven? He places rules and ordains order and authority in our lives. Yet, we push back and demand that our way is better. All the while not realizing that those rules and boundaries are for our own good!! And instead of losing patience and focus, He sent His own Son to save us, providing us a way back into His loving arms of forgiveness and grace.
Authority. I’m so glad I have a Father who has the final say on this subject. What a relief! What a mighty God we serve!
In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
1 Peter 5:5-7 NIV